Thursday, June 20, 2013

The straight enemy of my gay enemy was not my friend

I know, this is the second time I have written today.  It's just that, as Cinderella's Godmother sang so beautifully on the Tony's last week, "Impossible things are happening everyday."

Yesterday I would never have dreamed about putting that address on my Blogspot about Mormon Men of the Priesthood who are gay. Today is a completely new universe.
The first page of Exodus (exodus from a homosexual lifestyle -- for those of you in the not-know)  speaks of true stories from real life ex-gays. Frankly, I often read them with hope and courage and conviction and a lot of doubt.  There was no way I was going to change my sexuality with out divine intervention, and divine intervention was not what they were peddling. 

They were peddling Sports.  And they were peddling prayer and scripture reading.  to change ones sexuality. 

Now I believe in prayer and scriptures.  To some extent, I believe in sports (as long as one of the colors is not red)

The man leading the movement has finely come out with the truth of the Homo matter.  He can change his behavior.  He can keep his junk in check.  He can have a family and a wife without a little something something on the side and be truly worthy to call himself a moral man (for Mormon me, this would include a temple recommend righteously obtained and maintained) And he can still be gay.

He keeps himself in check -- like real men have been doing for hundreds of years with temptations of one kind or another. He sacrifices something that may be good for something he knows can be better.

So go ahead and read an essay or two on the site and know that the essay with the most truth, the most honesty is the one that Brother Chambers wrote today.

Exodus Int’l President to the Gay Community: “We’re Sorry”
Leader of 37-year old ministry admits grave errors
Irvine, Calif. (June 19, 2013) — Exodus International, the oldest and largest Christian ministry dealing with faith and homosexuality, issued an apology to the gay community for years of undue suffering and judgment at the hands of the organization and the Church as a whole.
The apology ( dovetails with the ministry’s 38th annual conference in Irvine, Calif. – and the Thursday, June 20, airing of the television broadcast “God & Gays” on Our America with Lisa Ling. On Ling’s program, Exodus President, Alan Chambers, sits down with gay and lesbian people hurt by the Church with the goal of reconciliation.
“It is strange to be someone who has both been hurt by the Church’s treatment of the LGBTQ community, and also to be someone who must apologize for being part of the very system of ignorance that perpetuated that hurt,” said Chambers. “Today it is as if I’ve just woken up to a greater sense of how painful it is to be a sinner in the hands of an angry church.”
Chambers also said: “I am sorry for the pain and hurt that many of you have experienced. I am sorry some of you spent years working through the shame and guilt when your attractions didn’t change. I am sorry we promoted sexual orientation change efforts and reparative theories about sexual orientation that stigmatized parents. “I am sorry I didn’t stand up to people publicly ‘on my side’ who called you names like sodomite—or worse. I am sorry that I, knowing some of you so well, failed to share publicly that the gay and lesbian people I know were every bit as capable of being amazing parents as the straight people that I know. I am sorry that when I celebrated a person coming to Christ and surrendering their sexuality to Him, I callously celebrated the end of relationships that broke your heart. I am sorry I have communicated that you and your families are less than me and mine.
“More than anything, I am sorry that so many have interpreted this religious rejection by Christians as God’s rejection. I am profoundly sorry that many have walked away from their faith and that some have chosen to end their lives.
“You have never been my enemy. I am very sorry that I have been yours. I hope changes in my own life, as well as the ones we announce tonight regarding Exodus International, will bring resolution, and show I am serious in both my regret and offer of friendship. I pledge that future endeavors will be focused on peace and common good.”
Portions of the Exodus Freedom conference, June 19-23 at Concordia College, are open to the media. Live streaming is available for the main sessions. The event draws men, women parents, teens, pastors and ministry leaders for four days of teaching and support. Many attendees are attracted to the same sex, and desire to live in congruence with their faith. Others attend looking for help in coming alongside those with same-sex attraction.
Exodus President, Alan Chambers, is available for interviews. For press credentials or to set up an interview, contact Amy Tracy at 407/808-9831 or 719/355-9075. For additional information and a schedule of activities, please go to
A preview of “Our America with Lisa Ling” can be seen here (

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